On the way home, we started talking about Mission Impossible parties and decided it would be really fun to throw one for Bart's birthday. A friend of ours has a birthday just two days after Bart's, so we asked them if they wanted to co-host with us so we could all participate.
Two weeks ago, we recorded Bart issuing mission directives over the theme song and then ending with a "this message will self-destruct in five, four, three, two, one . . . " and a loud explosion.
We packaged the CDs in large manilla envelopes along with additional instructions about location and time and a tiny water gun, and then sealed the whole thing with a "Mission Impossible: Birthday Protocol" sticker and then the other couple ding-dong-ditched them on the doorsteps of everyone on our invite list.
The response was terrific - people were delighted by the invitations, the funny audio, and the little waterguns. Six of the seven couple we invited were able to come.
On the night of, everyone met at one of our favorite Indian restaurants. After everyone had finished, we assigned each couple to a team (each team had two couples) and gave them a large paper sack with their first clue, a list of extra assignments, and a couple of things they needed for their mission.
Each team had a route with four total clues (Bart and I planned and set-up two of the routes and our friends did the other two so we each would be able to do a route that was a surprise to us).
From the time we left the restaurant, each team had 90 minutes to collect all four clues, complete as many of the extra missions as possible, and return to our place for dessert. For every minute you were late, ten points would be deducted from your final score.
One of the group's clues started with a location (the name of a park, scrambled) and a specific item at the park (a large plastic dinosaur, also scrambled).
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This one referenced a book and after they'd figured out the title, they had to go to Barnes & Noble and find the copy of the book that had the final clue hidden in it. That clue directed them to finish up as many extra missions as possible and then return to our house by the deadline.
The list of optional missions included things like a picture of your group in an elevator and a picture of three couples kissing and a brown bag of Snicker bars labeled "Ransom" with a note saying "here is the ransom you demanded. Please return our cat, Fluffy, as we miss her dearly" which had to be anonymously dropped on someone's doorstep (seeing a Facebook post about it from a confused neighbor the next morning was priceless). Each mission had a different number of points assigned to it, depending on the difficulty. You can see the entire list and the accompanying points here.
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| A couple side missions for our team: an animal, wearing masks, handstands, and a picture of a weapon |
The only mishap was that one of the other teams was supposed to go get their clue from a local restaurant and the girl at the counter that our friends had left the clue with failed to pass on the message or leave the clue (despite acting extremely enthusiastic about participating) and so that was a pretty frustrating half hour for that team as they practically turned the restaurant upside down looking for a clue that just was. not. there. But, they were good sports.
If we were to do it again (and I think it's quite likely that we will recreate this in some form down the road), we'd do a longer list of optional missions (every group finished all but one) and probably make five or six clues per team. Meeting for dinner was nice because everyone got to socialize before splitting up, and then gathering again for dessert was a nice ending (and people LOVED sharing stories about their adventures).
We had bottles of sparkling cider for both of the couples on the winning team, plus cheesecake and ice cream for everyone else.



This. is. awesome. A genius idea that sounds like an absolute blast to participate in. (Also, props for your husband's FNL t-shirt!)
ReplyDeleteSo fun! Was this Happiness Project inspired "make time for projects"/"have more fun"? (I am reading it right now and it makes me want to take the time to do things like this.)
ReplyDeleteCoolest.party.ever. So...would you be willing to plan my next birthday? :)
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, this sounds SO awesome. Right up my alley! I very well may have to steal your idea some day....so awesome.
ReplyDeleteI love this!! So awesome!
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That is so fun! I wish we could have come!
ReplyDeleteThis is epic. I am absolutely filing this away for future parties. You are a genius.
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I'm going to have you come into town to help plan Aaron's next bday party.
ReplyDeleteHow Cool!! I sure wish I lived close to you, I'd love to be invited to one of your parties!! You know how to have fun. I missed you for a bit as I went Screen-Free for a while. But I'm back now. If you're interested in how my experiment went, I posted about it (briefly) today!
ReplyDeleteWhy have I not done this??? Perfect. I am definitely going to recreate this party - thanks for sharing so many details.
ReplyDeleteVery, very cool.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a blast! If only you had included fake mustaches and trench coats like at my 11th birthday party :)
ReplyDeleteLove this. How fun!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a great idea for a party! I just might have to take it and tweak it a bit to do with my church's youth group this summer...transportation between sites would be the only sticky point since most of them can't drive. Maybe I'll make them all bike around town (it's not that big of a town)!
ReplyDeleteAaand...I am officially copying every little bit of this. Hope you don't mind.
ReplyDeletethat is very fun for a party. poor fluffy, though. . .
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